Saturday, January 28, 2012
THE DILEMMA OF A HUSBAND IN A SOCIETY UNDER THE DOCTRINE OF THE SHOULD BE MONOGAMY FOR ALL MEN
Let them be only thine own, and not strangers’ with thee .
Proverbs 5:17
The husband was a godly man like Elkanah tried his best to do justice for his household. But his wife who was under the spell of Jezebel (Revelation 2:20) made it hard for him. The husband had limited resources and tried his best to maintain a decent living for his nuclear family and himself. He tried to balance his budget while also gave himself some “pleasures”. But his wife now old and dried could barely quench his thirst and the BIG BIG LIE-the false sexual taboo of his whole community put a pressure to him to conform to their “darkened” way of life. He was a” poor boy” indeed…and as he listened to sounds in the air his tears fell…
Just a come-on from the whores on Seventh Avenue
I do declare, there were times when I was so lonesome
I took some comfort there
I do declare, there were times when I was so lonesome
I took some comfort there
Lie la lie ..
And now he had also swallowed part of the lie…he had frequented the women for sale risking his health and reputation. But what could he do? He knew that it was never a sin against God if he added a wife…but his wife and all those around him thought of such things like an abnormal acts!
He saw many of his fellowmen in the same dilemma as he was. He saw them instead of spending their time on their wife and children instead spend their time drinking in the Beer Houses looking for amorous waitress and females GRO’s (Guest Relation Officer) for a one night stand or even an extra affair.
He saw his male office mates addicted to porno sites… He saw the Jezebels alluring them….like pictures of delicious foods made to temped the men but when a man will eat his hand were slap and told he was a bad boy!
He remembered the itinerant preacher who could bring tears to the eyes of his listeners when he preached the Gospel-but the preacher too fell prey to the snare of the devil and his successful ministry destroyed by his quenching of his thirst with the whores.
All of these afflicted and whirled around the mind of the man…he wanted to make things right but he was alone…alone in a society whose Laws on Marriage and family had been changed by the Antichrist to make the husband weary…
And the Lord pitied the man…and the Lord gave him another woman to love him and comfort him when he was blue…but the expense involve because the 2nd wife could not openly live with him and his family burdened him…he wanted to bring this new fountain home…but his wife he knew would resent such a move. Even the government patterned after the image of the Beast would surely make war against him…he weigh his options…and he prayed and prayed…asking for His heavenly Father to make him overcome these all! With the Sword of God and the shield of Faith..with the Helmet of Salvation and the belt and the rest of the accessories, the man prepared for war!THIS MEANS WAR the man said!
A DILEMMA OF A WIFE IN A SOCIETY LIED UPON BY THE DOCTRINE OF SHOULD BE MONOGAMY FOR ALL MEN
And he had two wives; the name of the one was Hannah, and the name of the other Peninnah: and Peninnah had children, but Hannah had no children.1 Samuel 1: 2
Their love story was featured in one of the TV network in the Philippines: MAALAALA MO KAYA (MMK)(Will you Remember?).
Their love story started in being wed…both in love with each other. But the husband was earning less than the wife and gossips among the women friends of the wife contributed to the cooling of the husband “love” for his wife. He began to resent her earnings which was more than his and the gossiped that he was good for nothing husband. He had a love affair with another woman which in time the first wife caught. The wife could not forgive the husband…and thus was another FAVORITE NUCLEAR FAMILY BROKEN by the big big lie that it was a sin against God for a man to add another wife.
Look at the story of Elkanah who had two wives. What did the godly wife did when her godly husband added another wife? Did she stop herself from loving her husband? We see that she did not, instead she prayed to God. And we see that Elkanah also love her..
1 Samuel 1″4-5 And when the time was that Elkanah offered, he gave to Peninnah his wife, and to all her sons and her daughters, portions: But unto Hannah he gave a worthy portion; for he loved Hannah: but the LORD had shut up her womb.
When society do not go back to this Biblical Model of Marriage and insist on the doctrine of demons that forbid a man to marry another wife…this tragedy of a husband and wife and their children will be repeated again and again and again!
Woe to the blind guides and their followers for sacrificing the families to the altars of demons by preaching a false marriage which does not at all synchronize with the Biblical model! Wake up men of God!
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