NUCLEAR FAMILY FORMS -Designed to Explode ?

Alvin Toffler stated that most people are ignorant of  the different forms of family! They think that only one form exist-and that is the NUCLEAR FORM!

What is a nuclear form of family? It is a family consisting of one husband, one wife and several or no children. With grandparents and other relatives not included...with these individual as also part of their own individual NUCLEAR FAMILY!

The nuclear form of family became popular only after the nuking of Japan...that is probably the reason why it was termed as NUCLEAR!

Most of us know that in the First Wave society (Agricultural society) men mostly practiced polygyny in  order for them and their families to survive. The family forms were varied according to needs, but the popular form of family was the Patriarchal Form wherein the Father was the center of almost everything and in which the father had many wives and children as helps and arms against the forces that sought to destroy them. There were no hospitals, nor schools and many of the institutions now that exists! And husband needed the help meets and the children supporting one another in the farms...protecting each of the family members against robbers, bandits and even  against pied pipers!

When the second wave of change (Industrial Revolution) came (according to A. Toffler in his book THE THIRD WAVE)... I reckon about 1800...men began to be highly mobil with the invention of the train and cars...and government and preachers began to popularize MONOGAMY and its resultant form of family-the monogamous form of family....then it came to pass that as time pass that men began to ENFORCE MONOGAMY FOR ALL MARRIED MEN! They knew that the monogamous form of family was easier for the government to control...it was fragile and got few members to be a serious treat to any TYRANNIC government! By 1945 when the Atomic Bomb was dropped...the monogamous form of fragile family was called NUCLEAR FORM!

Now, who designed this FRAGILE FORM of family...unlike the Patriarchal Form of family wherein a single man can have many allies through relationship with the family members of his wives....with each of his marriage making and forming combinations of families more stronger and more bigger....the nuclear form of family was wee wee!

The designer and enforcer of should be monogamy for knew that man was by nature polygamous and women were monogamous...they played this gender difference to the hilt to make families-especially the nuclear form explode when the husband of each family began to feel the urge of his manhood! They wanted to make it hard on the husband and engaging his wife as their blinded and deceived ally...just like the serpent did to Mother EVe!

So that today we see many of the nuclear form of family EXPLODING! "Victims of love...a broken down affair...so sad to see the debris scattered everywhere"....children suffering and both man and woman crying...asking why? They donot know that the doctrine of marriage and the resultant form of family it made was a BIG BIG LIE from the father of lies! The nuclear form of family was like a ticking time bomb...designed to explode in some moments of time! Now are they exploding like crazy!

Why Many Wives become foolish Today

How did the devil made Adam fall? The devil use his one and only foolish wife! And how does the devil make many of the modern men stumble? Of course through their one and only foolish wife!
The HELP MEET that should have been his and the loving and faithful wife that should have been his have been turned into a bitter and furious woman!

Why? Have the man been such an idiotic husband? Perhaps or perhaps it is through the BIG BIG LIE-that have made many women into what they are today-a bitter, demanding, selfish partner of their individual man!

The big big lie have thrown away the biblical standard on how wives ought to behave…and with that so went their examples -the HOLY WOMEN OF OLD- martyrs for their husbands!Though their husband may have many wives yet they love them till the day of their death! In their place as examples for women to imitate are the glamorous modern Jezebels with their braided hair, gold…acting like sexy dancers scantily clothe and who insist that their husband is not their Lord but their co-equal! So would you wonder why wives today are quarelling their husband and behaving proudly against them? Because you and your teachers do not understand these matters…

scriptures:

1 Timothy 2:9 In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array;

1 Peter 3:6 like Sarah, who obeyed Abraham and called him her Lord…

Hosea 4:4 I will not punish your daughters when they commit whoredom, nor your spouses when they commit adultery: for themselves are separated with whores, and they sacrifice with harlots: therefore the people that doth not understand shall fall.

WHEN YOUR WIFE IS POSSESS BY JEZEBEL

Notwithstanding I have a few things against thee, because thou sufferest that woman Jezebel, which calleth herself a prophetess, to teach and to seduce my servants to commit fornication, and to eat things sacrificed unto idols.

Revelation 2:20

DESPITE JESUS WARNING BLINDED MEN AND BLINDED BELIEVERS HAVE TOLERATED JEZEBEL AND NOW HER SPIRIT HAD ALMOST ENGULF THE WHOLE WORLD-the whole world lies in the power of the evil one and now with every women & girls thinking and acting like her, what would be the result?

My friend and I was discussing about the moralities of modern women now. We longed for the days of old when many women were so faithful to their husband that they were like the tower of David.So our story drifted to his second wife..and he said it is a good thing that now she had matured.He told me that they have agreed not to quarrel about petty things and that their love and their family was their priority despite all persecution and poverty or anything that would come their way.He was so happy that his 2nd wife had matured.Despite the fact that she was older to him by about 10 years, there were many times in the past when she thought & acted foolishly. There relationship was now going into its 4th year. So we talk from 6 p.m. till 7 p.m. and bid each other goodbye.

Then by 9:30 p.m. my friend called me, they have quarreled. The reason: the woman was demanding that my friend ought to contribute more to the expenses in her household. And the woman was blaming him, telling him that if her husband was single (of which my friend could never be) she would have a normal life! She asked my friend why he took her in as a wife when he could not even afford to maintain his first family? She had previously driven him out from her house but later apologized and took him in again in a matter of three (3) days.

After comforting and advising my friend, I thought to myself “a fickle minded women!” Their mind blinded by it narrowness and spell from false teachings, how unstable are their ways now. With the BIG BIG LIE in place and even Bible believers unable to connect with what this verse Revelation 2:20 have to do with the LIE & our women and society, I said…”WHAT BLINDNESS!”?

Errr…can you connect? No? Our Savior Jesus said:

MATTHEW 15:14 Let them alone: they be blind leaders of the blind. And if the blind lead the blind, both shall fall into the ditch.

Matthew 15:9 In vain do they worship me, teaching as doctrines the commandments of men.

LET US DRINK FROM OUR OWN FOUNTAINS

SCRIPTURAL PROOFS THAT ” T H E M ” or the FOUNTAINS/SPRINGS in Proverbs 5:16-17 refers to WIVES!

Compare and study the verses:
Proverbs 5:16 Should your springs be dispersed abroad, Streams of water in the streets?

Proverbs 5:17 Let them be yours alone And not for strangers with you.

Proverb 5:18 Let thy fountain be blessed: and rejoice with the wife of thy youth.

Proverbs 9:17 “Stolen water is sweet; And bread eaten in secret is pleasant.”

While drinking water refer to the sexual activity (Proverbs 9:17), the Fountains or Springs or” THEM”( in verse 16-17 of Proverbs 5) from which we enjoy the water to quench our thirst obviously refers to wife or wives as can be seen in verse 18 of proverbs 5!

Note that it is the polygamous King Solomon that wrote these proverbs and those whose minds have been brainwashed by the Big Big Lie like always to twist the Word of God when it comes to this matters!

Let us Drink ! Listen: http://www.youtube.com/watch?NR=1&feature=endscreen&v=OI3Bcgh4Jko

Drink, Drink, Drink(Drinking Song)
Mario Lanza
Ein zwei drei vier
Lift your stein and drink your beer
Ein zwei drei vier
Lift your stein and drink your beer

Drink! Drink! Drink!
To eyes that are bright as stars when they’re shining on me!
Drink! Drink! Drink!
To lips that are red and sweet as the fruit on the tree!

Here’s a hope that those bright eyes will shine
Lovingly, longingly soon into mine!
May those lips that are red and sweet,
Tonight with joy my own lips meet!

Drink! Drink!
Let the toast start!
May young hearts never part!
Drink! Drink! Drink!
Let every true lover salute his sweetheart!

Drink! Drink! Drink!
To arms that are white and warm as a rose in the sun!
Drink! Drink! Drink!
To hearts that will love one, only when I am the one!
Here’s a hope that those soft arms will twine
Tenderly, trustingly soon around mine!

All I ask is the right to see those smiling eyes beguiling me
Drink! Drink!
Let the toast start!
May young hearts never part!
Drink! Drink! Drink!
Let every true lover salute his sweetheart!
Let’s drink!

Drink! Drink! Drink!
To eyes that are bright as stars when they’re shining on me!
Drink! Drink! Drink!
To lips that are red and sweet as the fruit on the tree!
Here’s a hope that those soft arms will twine
Tenderly, trustingly soon around mine!

All I ask is a right to see those smiling eyes beguiling me
Drink! Drink!
Let the toast start!
May young hearts never part!
Drink! Drink! Drink!
Let every true lover salute his sweetheart!
Let’s drink!

WOMEN ARE CRAZY?

WHEN THE MOON IS FULL DO WOMEN BECOME A LITTLE CRazY? Does their logic go haywire?

If mine heart have been deceived by a woman, or if I have laid wait at my neighbour’s door.  Job 31:9

Well it was February 14, 2012 and they are celebrating the “Christian” Valentines Day with the bishop of the city reminding the flocks not to forget that their celebration of this should be in the Christian context…I donot know if the moon was full then last night….i forgot to look at the sky…what with all the red hearts posted and the flowers being sent to love ones.

I was with the first woman and I asked her ” Did you when your card game?” She answered “:Grrrrr!&*^%#$@)({:”+0987654321=GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!” What was that? Was the moon full!

Then outside I asked the second woman, “Do you want to eat Burger!”" Yes”, she said and added “I don’t feel well I have my period now!” So I ordered burger for her, but after the saleslady handed us the burger, she won’t eat. So I eat my burger…then she asked me, “What is that foot long hotdog?” You want to eat one I asked? No, she said, my lower abdomen donot feel good because of my period. So I continued eating…then she asked me again “What is that beefy hotdog?” I asked her you like to eat one?” Yes”, she said. So I order one for her but when the saleslady give it to her she did not eat it.

While walking home I told & asked her, “You are planning to buy some things in the drugstore, it might be closed. Then she answered, IT IS NOT CLOSED!&^*%$#@!)({}?>GRRRRRRRRRR! grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr! What was that? Was the moon full?

Sometimes I believe there is a truth to the saying that WOMEN ARE CRAZY!Here is a song for the women that I love that I wish would wake up and be conformed to the image of their Savior & Lord. Listen to Billy Joel “She’s always a woman to me!”:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pNZeGnV43ys&feature=fvst

She can kill with a smile
She can wound with her eyes
She can ruin your faith with her casual lies
And she only reveals what she wants you to see
She hides like a child,
But she’s always a woman to me

She can lead you to love
She can take you or leave you
She can ask for the truth
But she’ll never believe you
And she’ll take what you give her, as long as it’s free
Yeah, she steals like a thief
But she’s always a woman to me

CHORUS:
Oh–she takes care of herself
She can wait if she wants
She’s ahead of her time
Oh–and she never gives out
And she never gives in
She just changes her mind

And she’ll promise you more
Than the Garden of Eden
Then she’ll carelessly cut you
And laugh while you’re bleedin’
But she’ll bring out the best
And the worst you can be
Blame it all on yourself
Cause she’s always a woman to me
–Mhmm–

Bridge

CHORUS:
Oh–she takes care of herself
She can wait if she wants
She’s ahead of her time
Oh–and she never gives out
And she never gives in
She just changes her mind

She is frequently kind
And she’s suddenly cruel
She can do as she pleases
She’s nobody’s fool
And she can’t be convicted
She’s earned her degree
And the most she will do
Is throw shadows at you
But she’s always a woman to me
–Mhmm–

The Practical Theonomist: Is Polygamy Forbidden in Scripture?

The Practical Theonomist: Is Polygamy Forbidden in Scripture?

http://www.patriarchywebsite.com/monogamy/mono-history.htm

http://www.biblicalpolygamy.com/

THE DILEMMA OF A HUSBAND IN A SOCIETY UNDER THE DOCTRINE OF THE SHOULD BE MONOGAMY FOR ALL MEN

Let them be only thine own, and not strangers’ with thee .

Proverbs 5:17

The husband was a godly man like Elkanah tried his best to do justice for his household. But his wife who was under the spell of Jezebel (Revelation 2:20) made it hard for him. The husband had limited resources and tried his best to maintain a decent living for his nuclear family and himself. He tried to balance his budget while also gave himself some “pleasures”. But his wife now old and dried could barely quench his thirst and the BIG BIG LIE-the false sexual taboo of his whole community put a pressure to him to conform to their “darkened” way of life. He was a” poor boy” indeed…and as he listened to sounds in the air his tears fell…

Just a come-on from the whores on Seventh Avenue
I do declare, there were times when I was so lonesome
I took some comfort there

Lie la lie ..

And now he had also swallowed part of the lie…he had frequented the women for sale risking his health and reputation. But what could he do? He knew that it was never a sin against God if he added a wife…but his wife and all those around him thought of such things like an abnormal acts!

He saw many of his fellowmen in the same dilemma as he was. He saw them instead of spending their time on their wife and children instead spend their time drinking in the Beer Houses looking for amorous waitress and females GRO’s (Guest Relation Officer) for a one night stand or even an extra affair.

He saw his male office mates addicted to porno sites… He saw the Jezebels alluring them….like pictures of delicious foods made to temped the men but when a man will eat his hand were slap and told he was a bad boy!

He remembered the itinerant preacher who could bring tears to the eyes of his listeners when he preached the Gospel-but the preacher too fell prey to the snare of the devil and his successful ministry destroyed by his quenching of his thirst with the whores.

All of these afflicted and whirled around the mind of the man…he wanted to make things right but he was alone…alone in a society whose Laws on Marriage and family had been changed by the Antichrist to make the husband weary…

And the Lord pitied the man…and the Lord gave him another woman to love him and comfort him when he was blue…but the expense involve because the 2nd wife could not openly live with him and his family burdened him…he wanted to bring this new fountain home…but his wife he knew would resent such a move. Even the government patterned after the image of the Beast would surely make war against him…he weigh his options…and he prayed and prayed…asking for His heavenly Father to make him overcome these all! With the Sword of God and the shield of Faith..with the Helmet of Salvation and the belt and the rest of the accessories, the man prepared for war!THIS MEANS WAR the man said!