WIFE OR WIVES THAT WILL CAUSE YOU TROUBLE

And he had seven hundred wives, princesses, and three hundred concubines: and his wives turned away his heart.

1 King 11:3

THE WIVES OF SOLOMON THAT TURNED HIS HEART AWAY FROM GOD!

Would you believe that in every man’s success or failure there is a woman or women behind him!

Samson had his Delilah to his own demised.

Elkanah had his Hannah & Penninah to happier life!

King David had his Bathsheba that caused him his sons Absalom, Adonijah and troubles in his kingdom. But note however that despite the many wives of David his heart did not turn away from God, therefore it is wrong to assume that having many wives will turn away ones heart away from God.It is not the number of wives but the quality of the wife or wives. Even just a wife can turn away ones heart away from God. So the question is, what kind of wife or wives will turn the heart of a man away from God?

Heard of the wife of Job trying to turn away the heart of Job away from God? Did you remember the wife of Lot who did not listen to God’s word carefully? Remember our first mother how she lead her husband Adam and us toward’s death & misery? And now on Solomon…wise king …what kind of wives turned away his heart away from God? The answer is in the beginning verses. Why do we always isolate one verse from the context? The women that turned his heart away were “strange women” who did not believed in God or His word! Strange women are not necessarily foreigners but women that has not the Word of God in them… See 1 King 11 verses:

1 But King Solomon loved many foreign women, as well as the daughter of Pharaoh: women of the Moabites, Ammonites, Edomites, Sidonians, and Hittites— 2 from the nations of whom the LORD had said to the children of Israel, “You shall not intermarry with them, nor they with you. Surely they will turn away your hearts after their gods.” Solomon clung to these in love.

HOW IMPORTANT ARE WOMEN IN THE MAINTENANCE OF A HOME

Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives;1 Peter 3:1

1 Peter 3:7 Husbands, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect as the weaker partner and as heirs with you of the gracious gift of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers.

That is the advised of the Apostle to us; but would you know that even if how saintly a man is, his home would still be a ruin if he has a foolish wife or wives?

Quite hard to find a virtues woman or women, right? Right! Proverbs 31 says so!
Many men made sure that when they married they were equally yoke in their faith; but to their surprise their marriage ends in divorce or separation. What happened? They did not know that a lot of women whether believers or believers were wired to destroy their homes with the mindset that the Mother of Harlots and the spell of jezebel had injected into their minds through the false system of the world. These women thinks they are godly and religious, but the fact is, their attitudes and thinking if compared with the Holy Women of old, they are a world apart! Thus is it any wonder that the families are breaking apart; and that the families that are breaking apart are the NUCLEAR FORM OF FAMILY?

Nuclear form of family is a family with one husband, one wife and several children. This form of family is a recent development. For previously our societies were patriarchal were the Biblical model were followed; with men leading their household and free to add other wives thus a man can have several wives. And if a wife begins to wax wanton against her husband necessary measures was within the husband arsenal to discipline such a wayward wife. The household could not be greatly affected since their were other wives and concubines who would still be there to maintain the household. But nowadays with the false doctrine that it is a sin and disloyalty for man to add a wife, the household of any is an easy prey for the devil’s ploy! Woe to the man who have an only wife and that wife begins to wax wanton against him! His tears and cold from his running nose will mixed from his anguish and broken heart.

So if societies want to preserve the families let us go back to the biblical model!

OLD GRANDMA OF MY LOYAL FRIEND POLYJOHN

She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life.

Proverbs 31:12

 My friend PolyJohn told me a story about his grandma. As I have said before my friend and me loved to talked about women, families, relationships and how to maintain them. He told me that the HOME of every man was dependent on how strong the wife or wives of such men. No matter how good a man and responsible he is, if his wife is foolish…then in almost all cases such a family will come to ruins!

He told me about his grandma’s wisdom. Here the story of old wise grandma.

Grandma was married to a drunkard and gambler. But would you believe they never quarreled even for once? The old wise woman knew her wife crafts so well that she tamed a drunkard and a gambler!

One time when grandpa was able to sold their pigs for ten thousand pesos; he happened to pass by a wake for a dead neighbor. The old man went to bet the money and began to lose three thousand pesos. Hoping to get it back he gambled and gambled till all the money from the sales of the pigs were gone!

He went home and told his wife. And do you think wise grandma went to make a scene or made their house a hell for him? No, the wise women said: When I married you, I already knew you were like that…the ten thousand was just money…i have accepted you as you are, so it is okay…well earn money again…so relax! I forgave you!

1 Peter 3:1 Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives;

1 Peter 3:2 when they see the purity and reverence of your lives.

1 Corinthians 14:34 women should remain silent in the churches. They are not allowed to speak, but must be in submission, as the Law says.

Ephesians 5:22 Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord.

Colossians 3:18 Wives, submit to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord.

THE MOTHER OF MY LOYAL FRIEND POLY JOHN

The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil.Proverbs 31:11

He is an only child of his mother BUT he had step-brothers and step-sisters from his father with his other wives. And his mother named him Poly John like she meant him to Multiply.

And we always talk about women, families and relationship on how to maintain them. And he told me about how his mother used to cry because his father was with his other women. And one of his narrow minded relatives told his mother that they will kill his father if she would give the word. But his wise grandma, the mother of his mother intervened. The old wise woman said: If you kill the man won’t his son hate you? Won’t the authorities be after you? Don’t do such an evil thing!Thus was his father life not spilled by foolish men!

And my friend told me that his mother would always be kind and gentle every time his father went home. She never quarreled him for his “womanizing” but just treated him with kindness like a martyr. His father had lots of imperfections and stupidities…but his mother kept their family intact with the advice of her own old father and mother.

His mother is a public school teacher, not necessarily full of virtues, but by the way she acted wisely in behalf of her family-she maintained her household like the Holy Women of Old!

Here are some scriptures on women:

Proverbs 11:16
A kindhearted woman gains respect, but ruthless men gain only wealth.

Proverbs 12:4
A wife of noble character is her husband’s crown, but a disgraceful wife is like decay in his bones

Proverbs 14:1
The wise woman builds her house, but with her own hands the foolish one tears hers down.

Proverbs 19:13
A foolish son is his father’s ruin, and a quarrelsome wife is like a constant dripping.

Proverbs 21:19
Better to live on a corner of the roof than to share a house with a quarrelsome wife.

TEACHING & LEARNING WITH A PURPOSE

TEACHING & LEARNING WITH A PURPOSE

Let us hear the conclusion of the whole matter: Fear God, and keep his commandments: for this is the whole duty of man.

There are teachers in the Christian faith that talks & write to no ends-if you would allow them, they would fill every thing with their scribbles…drown and lull to sleep the believers who donot understand themselves and their faith. They think that with their much talk and learning they are in the faith; but they donot know that they are walking in vain conversation-just like their fathers did! While they mumble their mumbo jumbo…everyone of them keep on transgressing the Laws and /or commandments of God because they misinterpreted it or are unaware of it!

So ,Why do we teach & what is it’s purpose?

The purpose of teaching the Word of God is for us to know the will of God that we might do them! Or as in the scriptures:

“The secret things belong to the LORD our God, but the things revealed belong to us and to our children forever, that we may follow all the words of this law.”Deuteronomy 29:29

“But be ye doers of the word, and not hearers only.” -James 1:22.

“Whosoever therefore shall break one of these least commandments, and shall teach men so, he shall be called the least in the kingdom of heaven: but whosoever shall do and teach them, the same shall be called great in the kingdom of heaven.”Matthew 5:19.

That is why talking & talking and talking while we leave alone those who are being badly affected by the twisting and tampering of the Laws of God, is like an insult to our Savior and our God. He hath placed His spirit upon us to set free the captives…and as i have already many times repeated, the major tampering and twisting on God Laws had been made on :

MARRIAGE by the implementing SHOULD BE MONOGAMY DOCTRINE on all!

NOT SO VERY LONG AGO

LONG AGO WHEN PEOPLE WERE UNDECEIVED BY JEZEBEL
This was what they suggested to a dirty old man who for the record have already more than eighteen (18) wives. The suggestion above would most without a doubt cause a furor among the religious but not righteous people of today. You see, most are under the spell of the WOMAN Jezebel though they would not acknowledge that.

Were the people in the King palace not aware of Deuteronomy 17:17? Was King David a man after God’s own heart like a little child who when sinners entice to sin would readily do that? This just show us that how they of the ancient understood the scriptures was different from how many today understood it. The so called experts and enlightened people of today are nothing but on the Bible twisters which is the caused of the destructions of hundred millions of people-families, children and women!

Thoughts: Job 12:12 With the ancient is wisdom; and in length of day

POOR OLD MEN OF TODAY -CONTRASTING A D.O.M. TODAY WITH A D.O.M. YESTERDAY

How many times today have we seen old man, wants to have some physical “love”, wanted to touch a pretty girl, when all hell break loose for him…

He was accused of being a dirty old man, a sexual pervert, a pedophile; a depraved man with all his DIRTY SEXUAL FANTASIES…and as the MEDIA began focusing on his case…his situation got much worse. The shame and the humiliation he was no in could drive a sane man toward suicide! His family abandoned him, his wife & his daughter had nothing but hateful words for him; his son called him an idiot for doing “such a disgusting thing!” All these added to his sorrow to his already troublesome state of being a DIRTY OLD MAN!All of his society had judged the old man GUILTY BEYOND REASONABLE DOUBT!

Contrast this to King David when he was old. KIng David in a society under the Law of God. There were priests and prophet in their society that knew the truth…and even his wives did not condemn him for adding a young wife when was a very dirty old man! He who had already more than eighteen (18) wives was now adding a young pretty wife as suggested by probably his own sons, the prophet Nathan and the people living in his palace. And their society did not condemn him for his sexual fantasies…his life was more happier & sexually fulfilling compared to the dirty old men nowadays!

Do you know what Jesus would say to those condemning the dirty old men today?Do you know what he will say to those who refuse to give every old men their REST?
“But if you had known what this means, ‘I DESIRE COMPASSION, AND NOT A SACRIFICE,’ you would not have condemned the innocent.”Matthew 12:7.

BEAUTY & THE BEAST & THEIR DAUGHTERS THE JEZEBELS

The true believer in God was at a dilemma. He was surrounded by Jezebels…almost every women & girls were possessed by her spirit..even the men were under her spell & deceptions of the false Mother…even his wife was possessed.

Having sex was not all his problems…with the plenty of amorous Jezebels surrounding him…for a fee or for free, he could have it. He knows sexual diseases had now become rampant and he saw how the Jezebels themselves were being destroyed by the system they were in. He tried to explain to them, including the men but to no avail.

He was sexually thirsty to drink, he mused at the virgin longing for him and thought ” You are a garden locked up, my sister, my bride; you are a spring enclosed, a sealed fountain. He wanted to own her to quenched his thirst, but his first wife was growling, the Beast was warning him, and Beauty was preaching and his whole barrio was looking at him like he was like a sex maniac! He was at a dilemma, he wanted to marry another one, but they were all opposing him…and he hummed, “all,lies and jest still a man hears wants he wants to hear and disregard the rest..”

He remembered the days when men were really free and enjoy their youth in the Kingdom God set up for his chosen people. But Now the Beast was reigning and he including all people were under his authority with the false Mother deceiving her subjects that this was the Kingdom of God fulfilled. And the majority had swallowed the Big Big Lie! He was having a hard time and remembered:

And it was given unto him to make war with the saints, and to overcome them: and power was given him over all kindreds, and tongues, and nations.Rev. 13:7;

As I watched, this horn was waging war against the saints and defeating them,Daniel 7:21;

He shall speak words against the Most High, and shall wear out the saints of the Most High, and shall think to change the times and the law; and they shall be given into his hand for a time, times, and half a time.Daniel 7:25;

So what had he done, he always had committed fornication to quench his sexual thirst…but the deceived did not understand his dilemma. So he hummed …”just a come-on from the whores
On Seventh Avenue I do declare,There were times when I was so lonesome
I took some comfort there…Lie-la-lie…and he remembered, “Notwithstanding I have a few things against thee, because thou sufferest that woman Jezebel, which calleth herself a prophetess, to teach and to seduce my servants to commit fornication…”this was his own dilemma…but the religious people blinded by their arrogance did not care!

So he attempted to wake them up the deceived people but all he met was opposition…

and he was vex , oppressed by the sensual conduct of unprincipled men & women, and the arrogance & ignorance of the religious people …. accused by the deceived religious people…mocked by the carnal people…on and on……………………………………………….as Lot was misinterpreted by the ignorance of even Bible readers, so it was his turn….so he prayed to his Father in Heaven…Abba Father rescue me in the name of my Saviour Jesus Christ I ask, Amen!

When Moses Added a 2nd Wife

 WHEN MIRIAM AND AARON SPOKE AGAINST MOSES FOR MARRYING
                                    A SECOND WIFE!

The Bible  verse Numbers 12:1  records Moses own elder sister and elder brother speaking against him for marrying a black woman! Moses had already a first wife a midianite when he run away from the Pharaoh…now he tries to add another one…and he met stiff opposition from people who were believers but who really did not know God like Moses did.

What do you think would the outcome be? Would God scold Moses for being dirty minded? Have you see how black women oozes with sex appeal. Oh poor Moses PROBABLY BEEN DREAMING OF a sexy woman to marry. Now here she comes…and then…the very people who knew Moses and how God dealt with him are the once opposing. Probably Miriam and Aaron looked down upon the Ethiopian woman because she was black.

What do you think would God do? 

Pastors Troubles

WHEN REVEREND “S” SPAKE OUT AGAINST REVEREND “B” FOR HAVING TWO WOMEN!

The both were good preachers…and TV evangelism during those days were
 raking in milions of dollars…was it hypocrisy on the part of “S” spoke out 
against his colleague alleged sin by having two women? Was it for money? 
Was he sincere? If he was sincere, why did “S” himself indulge in sexual 
sins which the sciptures prohibit? Remember that on the part of 
Reverend “B” his was not a sin, but it became sin because i believe he
 thought it was a sin!


So when the punishment came for Reverend “s” hypocritical rebuke 
of Reverend “B”, he was never in the stage again like what happened
 to Miriam the elder sister of Moses. Sad tale…all because people 
have been deceived by the Mother of Harlots that men should have
 only one wife!


source of story:
http://news.bbc.co.uk/onthisday/hi/dates/stories/february/
21/newsid_2565000/2565197.stm

By TIUCHE (wrote 701 Bible Commentaries )