A DILEMMA OF A WIFE IN A SOCIETY LIED UPON BY THE DOCTRINE OF SHOULD BE MONOGAMY FOR ALL MEN

And he had two wives; the name of the one was Hannah, and the name of the other Peninnah: and Peninnah had children, but Hannah had no children.1 Samuel 1: 2

Their love story was featured in one of the TV network in the Philippines: MAALAALA MO KAYA (MMK)(Will you Remember?).

Their love story started in being wed…both in love with each other. But the husband was earning less than the wife and gossips among the women friends of the wife contributed to the cooling of the husband “love” for his wife. He began to resent her earnings which was more than his and the gossiped that he was good for nothing husband. He had a love affair with another woman which in time the first wife caught. The wife could not forgive the husband…and thus was another FAVORITE NUCLEAR FAMILY BROKEN by the big big lie that it was a sin against God for a man to add another wife.

Look at the story of Elkanah who had two wives. What did the godly wife did when her godly husband added another wife? Did she stop herself from loving her husband? We see that she did not, instead she prayed to God. And we see that Elkanah also love her..

1 Samuel 1″4-5 And when the time was that Elkanah offered, he gave to Peninnah his wife, and to all her sons and her daughters, portions: But unto Hannah he gave a worthy portion; for he loved Hannah: but the LORD had shut up her womb.

When society do not go back to this Biblical Model of Marriage and insist on the doctrine of demons that forbid a man to marry another wife…this tragedy of a husband and wife and their children will be repeated again and again and again!

Woe to the blind guides and their followers for sacrificing the families to the altars of demons by preaching a false marriage which does not at all synchronize with the Biblical model! Wake up men of God!

WIFE OR WIVES THAT WILL CAUSE YOU TROUBLE

And he had seven hundred wives, princesses, and three hundred concubines: and his wives turned away his heart.

1 King 11:3

THE WIVES OF SOLOMON THAT TURNED HIS HEART AWAY FROM GOD!

Would you believe that in every man’s success or failure there is a woman or women behind him!

Samson had his Delilah to his own demised.

Elkanah had his Hannah & Penninah to happier life!

King David had his Bathsheba that caused him his sons Absalom, Adonijah and troubles in his kingdom. But note however that despite the many wives of David his heart did not turn away from God, therefore it is wrong to assume that having many wives will turn away ones heart away from God.It is not the number of wives but the quality of the wife or wives. Even just a wife can turn away ones heart away from God. So the question is, what kind of wife or wives will turn the heart of a man away from God?

Heard of the wife of Job trying to turn away the heart of Job away from God? Did you remember the wife of Lot who did not listen to God’s word carefully? Remember our first mother how she lead her husband Adam and us toward’s death & misery? And now on Solomon…wise king …what kind of wives turned away his heart away from God? The answer is in the beginning verses. Why do we always isolate one verse from the context? The women that turned his heart away were “strange women” who did not believed in God or His word! Strange women are not necessarily foreigners but women that has not the Word of God in them… See 1 King 11 verses:

1 But King Solomon loved many foreign women, as well as the daughter of Pharaoh: women of the Moabites, Ammonites, Edomites, Sidonians, and Hittites— 2 from the nations of whom the LORD had said to the children of Israel, “You shall not intermarry with them, nor they with you. Surely they will turn away your hearts after their gods.” Solomon clung to these in love.

HOW IMPORTANT ARE WOMEN IN THE MAINTENANCE OF A HOME

Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives;1 Peter 3:1

1 Peter 3:7 Husbands, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect as the weaker partner and as heirs with you of the gracious gift of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers.

That is the advised of the Apostle to us; but would you know that even if how saintly a man is, his home would still be a ruin if he has a foolish wife or wives?

Quite hard to find a virtues woman or women, right? Right! Proverbs 31 says so!
Many men made sure that when they married they were equally yoke in their faith; but to their surprise their marriage ends in divorce or separation. What happened? They did not know that a lot of women whether believers or believers were wired to destroy their homes with the mindset that the Mother of Harlots and the spell of jezebel had injected into their minds through the false system of the world. These women thinks they are godly and religious, but the fact is, their attitudes and thinking if compared with the Holy Women of old, they are a world apart! Thus is it any wonder that the families are breaking apart; and that the families that are breaking apart are the NUCLEAR FORM OF FAMILY?

Nuclear form of family is a family with one husband, one wife and several children. This form of family is a recent development. For previously our societies were patriarchal were the Biblical model were followed; with men leading their household and free to add other wives thus a man can have several wives. And if a wife begins to wax wanton against her husband necessary measures was within the husband arsenal to discipline such a wayward wife. The household could not be greatly affected since their were other wives and concubines who would still be there to maintain the household. But nowadays with the false doctrine that it is a sin and disloyalty for man to add a wife, the household of any is an easy prey for the devil’s ploy! Woe to the man who have an only wife and that wife begins to wax wanton against him! His tears and cold from his running nose will mixed from his anguish and broken heart.

So if societies want to preserve the families let us go back to the biblical model!

OLD GRANDMA OF MY LOYAL FRIEND POLYJOHN

She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life.

Proverbs 31:12

 My friend PolyJohn told me a story about his grandma. As I have said before my friend and me loved to talked about women, families, relationships and how to maintain them. He told me that the HOME of every man was dependent on how strong the wife or wives of such men. No matter how good a man and responsible he is, if his wife is foolish…then in almost all cases such a family will come to ruins!

He told me about his grandma’s wisdom. Here the story of old wise grandma.

Grandma was married to a drunkard and gambler. But would you believe they never quarreled even for once? The old wise woman knew her wife crafts so well that she tamed a drunkard and a gambler!

One time when grandpa was able to sold their pigs for ten thousand pesos; he happened to pass by a wake for a dead neighbor. The old man went to bet the money and began to lose three thousand pesos. Hoping to get it back he gambled and gambled till all the money from the sales of the pigs were gone!

He went home and told his wife. And do you think wise grandma went to make a scene or made their house a hell for him? No, the wise women said: When I married you, I already knew you were like that…the ten thousand was just money…i have accepted you as you are, so it is okay…well earn money again…so relax! I forgave you!

1 Peter 3:1 Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives;

1 Peter 3:2 when they see the purity and reverence of your lives.

1 Corinthians 14:34 women should remain silent in the churches. They are not allowed to speak, but must be in submission, as the Law says.

Ephesians 5:22 Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord.

Colossians 3:18 Wives, submit to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord.

THE MOTHER OF MY LOYAL FRIEND POLY JOHN

The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil.Proverbs 31:11

He is an only child of his mother BUT he had step-brothers and step-sisters from his father with his other wives. And his mother named him Poly John like she meant him to Multiply.

And we always talk about women, families and relationship on how to maintain them. And he told me about how his mother used to cry because his father was with his other women. And one of his narrow minded relatives told his mother that they will kill his father if she would give the word. But his wise grandma, the mother of his mother intervened. The old wise woman said: If you kill the man won’t his son hate you? Won’t the authorities be after you? Don’t do such an evil thing!Thus was his father life not spilled by foolish men!

And my friend told me that his mother would always be kind and gentle every time his father went home. She never quarreled him for his “womanizing” but just treated him with kindness like a martyr. His father had lots of imperfections and stupidities…but his mother kept their family intact with the advice of her own old father and mother.

His mother is a public school teacher, not necessarily full of virtues, but by the way she acted wisely in behalf of her family-she maintained her household like the Holy Women of Old!

Here are some scriptures on women:

Proverbs 11:16
A kindhearted woman gains respect, but ruthless men gain only wealth.

Proverbs 12:4
A wife of noble character is her husband’s crown, but a disgraceful wife is like decay in his bones

Proverbs 14:1
The wise woman builds her house, but with her own hands the foolish one tears hers down.

Proverbs 19:13
A foolish son is his father’s ruin, and a quarrelsome wife is like a constant dripping.

Proverbs 21:19
Better to live on a corner of the roof than to share a house with a quarrelsome wife.

TEACHING & LEARNING WITH A PURPOSE

TEACHING & LEARNING WITH A PURPOSE

Let us hear the conclusion of the whole matter: Fear God, and keep his commandments: for this is the whole duty of man.

There are teachers in the Christian faith that talks & write to no ends-if you would allow them, they would fill every thing with their scribbles…drown and lull to sleep the believers who donot understand themselves and their faith. They think that with their much talk and learning they are in the faith; but they donot know that they are walking in vain conversation-just like their fathers did! While they mumble their mumbo jumbo…everyone of them keep on transgressing the Laws and /or commandments of God because they misinterpreted it or are unaware of it!

So ,Why do we teach & what is it’s purpose?

The purpose of teaching the Word of God is for us to know the will of God that we might do them! Or as in the scriptures:

“The secret things belong to the LORD our God, but the things revealed belong to us and to our children forever, that we may follow all the words of this law.”Deuteronomy 29:29

“But be ye doers of the word, and not hearers only.” -James 1:22.

“Whosoever therefore shall break one of these least commandments, and shall teach men so, he shall be called the least in the kingdom of heaven: but whosoever shall do and teach them, the same shall be called great in the kingdom of heaven.”Matthew 5:19.

That is why talking & talking and talking while we leave alone those who are being badly affected by the twisting and tampering of the Laws of God, is like an insult to our Savior and our God. He hath placed His spirit upon us to set free the captives…and as i have already many times repeated, the major tampering and twisting on God Laws had been made on :

MARRIAGE by the implementing SHOULD BE MONOGAMY DOCTRINE on all!

NOT SO VERY LONG AGO

LONG AGO WHEN PEOPLE WERE UNDECEIVED BY JEZEBEL
This was what they suggested to a dirty old man who for the record have already more than eighteen (18) wives. The suggestion above would most without a doubt cause a furor among the religious but not righteous people of today. You see, most are under the spell of the WOMAN Jezebel though they would not acknowledge that.

Were the people in the King palace not aware of Deuteronomy 17:17? Was King David a man after God’s own heart like a little child who when sinners entice to sin would readily do that? This just show us that how they of the ancient understood the scriptures was different from how many today understood it. The so called experts and enlightened people of today are nothing but on the Bible twisters which is the caused of the destructions of hundred millions of people-families, children and women!

Thoughts: Job 12:12 With the ancient is wisdom; and in length of day